Sunday, April 12, 2009

If a guy's been going out with a girl for a solid year, does he HAVE TO buy her an anniversary gift? Or, is

this just something that girls do because you like to shop and give things to people? I don%26#039;t expect her to give me anything and would actually feel weird if she did...especially if it%26#039;s something stupid like flowers. Is the guy a jerk if he doesn%26#039;t get her a gift?

If a guy%26#039;s been going out with a girl for a solid year, does he HAVE TO buy her an anniversary gift? Or, is
No you don%26#039;t have to buy her a anniversary gift.....It would be very romantic of you to do so....It would let your girl know that she is someone special to you and is appreciate by you.....This kind of thing is important to a girl.....You are right about it being some thing girls do......We give gifts to show our appreciation.......
Reply:well if the girl give the guy a gift. then yeah that is kind of being a jerk cuz she got him a gift and he didnt. but if she didnt give him a gift then u dont have to give her a gift if u dont want to. but it all depends on how u celebrate ur aniversery, my bf gets me a gift and i give him a gift so it really isnt weird. so yeah it would be weird if u dont get her gift in ur own way.
Reply:I say yes, unless she really knows you really well. If she%26#039;s not expecting anything from you I think you should get something small like some flowers and a card or something simple and sweet. If you think she is expecting you to get her something it would be harder so, you might want to take that small simple gift and stretch it out a little more like add a stuffed animal and take her out to dinner and well waste a little more money. LOL = %26gt;
Reply:it%26#039;ll be a proof that she means a lot to u... so stop thinkin..rush to the shop take her something sweet that she%26#039;ll keep as a treasure... n your reward will be the look of happiness on her face when she%26#039;ll realise that u haven%26#039;t forgotten that special date...


best of luck...
Reply:He does NOT HAVE TO!!!, but women really appreciate a recognition of yearly anniversaries.In there eyes its %26quot;a deeply loving gesture%26quot; Enjoy the day.
Reply:my bf didnt we were fighting at the time lol, but i think its a really nice gesture, make or buy her a card telling how special she is, its always nice and give her a bunch of flowers. shel feel loved and y woldnt u want ur gf to feel that way. it doesnt cost u much so y not make sure she knows how u feel
Reply:get a card or take her for dinner or a drink insted
Reply:Have to, No, no one should feel compelled to do things that is not from their heart. But IF you want her to continue feeling special then it would be a very nice touch to get her a gift to celebrate how long you have been dating. And she might not get you a gift but some type of gesture is always appropriate to remind people of just how unique they are to us. I hope this helps



nanny

I'm in a long distance relationship. i want to surprise my bf with a present for our three month anniversary.

i want to send him a package. i don%26#039;t really want to send flowers and candy. something different. any ideas please?

I%26#039;m in a long distance relationship. i want to surprise my bf with a present for our three month anniversary.
your panties?
Reply:Only 3 months, and long distance? lol, no offense but good luck.
Reply:A watch and a note saying, every second that ticks on by... I will love you. Or something along them lines.
Reply:a pic of you together in an engraved pic frame so he can look at you when he misses you...
Reply:3 months is a little early for a celebration but send him something that will remind him of you. Perhaps a picture or something personalized.
Reply:it%26#039;s only 3 months.. dont stress over it.
Reply:madden 2007
Reply:A book, Find a book that you think he could relate to and send it to him. or something that he always like a hat or something. or go for the always fav (well depending) a heart felt card and special note.
Reply:send him some nude pics of yourself



Shoes

What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend did not get you a special gift for your 1 year anniversary?

Well 1 year was just yesterday. I spend $50-75 and went all over get his gift. He just treated me to dinner and appoligied for not finding anything to get me yet. Looked one place last minute for flowers. Also he said I would have to wait til Saturday. I acted sad ,but did not want to start an arguement on this special day.It acted like 1 year was a big deal to him cuase he never had that long of reltionships and ours was going good. What would you do if you were in this situation? actions? words?

What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend did not get you a special gift for your 1 year anniversary?
you should be lucky he remembered
Reply:Just be patient, like you said, a relationship this long is new to him. Keep making each milestone a special event and he will catch on.
Reply:nothing just go with the flow
Reply:Well at least he took you out to dinner and got you flower%26#039;s.


He didn%26#039;t forget right? . Give the guy some credit for that one.


Maybe he%26#039;s just trying to find that perfect gift,


instead of rushing into it and buying you something cheap


Give him time, hint him on what you like.





Hope you get something nice. : )
Reply:As long as he shagged you as well i don%26#039;t see a problem.
Reply:Honestly, It wouldnot really matter if my girlfriend didnt get me anything for our aniversary because the improtant ting is that i still hav her. and that%26#039;s the greatest gift for me.
Reply:nothing to do ,, but i will not give them any gift any more ,,


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Reply:He probably have something romantic and special for you that%26#039;s why he told you to wait until Saturday, and the dinner was just the beginning. Be patient; at least he remembered the anniversary.
Reply:I%26#039;d be keepin the pimpette hand strong
Reply:Why does it matter whether or not he bought you something? Gifts should never be thought of symbols of love, especially gifts given on premediated holidays. The way he treats you should always be more than enough.
Reply:wait and see if he makes it up to you...men are forgetful....why didnt you remind him it was coming up anyways....you should of known better.
Reply:I think some guys just don%26#039;t realize the importance of %26quot;gifts.%26quot; I have been with my guy for 6 years, and he has never really bought me a gift, just taken me out to dinner. I usually get mad about it, but I know he loves me.....must just be a gene they%26#039;re missing. You should definitely tell him that the thought (gifts) means a lot to you and see what happens next time.
Reply:Guys are stupid sometimes.





Give him time to get a present. Tell him specifically that you%26#039;re %26quot;looking forward%26quot; to Saturday.





Praise anything he gives you even if you don%26#039;t like it.
Reply:There is nothing you should do about this specifically. It is however an indication that maybe he isn%26#039;t as excited about being with you as he should be. Give him some more time, and if it seems that your dates have become routing and he%26#039;s lost all sense of romance then maybe you should get rid of him. At that point, the only reason for him to be with you is because he prefers having a girl around than being alone with other guys.
Reply:He feels bad ... Atleast he took you out, and is putting forth effort... My bf is bad to buy me gifts.. I would have to go w/ him or tell him what I want... S, don%26#039;t feel bad... The best way to celebrate an anniversary is to just spend time together. GIfts, Atleast to me, aren%26#039;t much.. as long as he%26#039;s there... that%26#039;s what matters
Reply:id make sure that its clear why he didnt do it. If he didnt have the money, he should have planned, but thats a forgiveable thing.


but if he straight up forgot, which happens a lot, its not forgivable.


i would ask him if you two could talk, and start up by explaining how the anniversary was very special for you, and you feel like he didnt plan and remember it.


then explain how you were hurt and if he reacts like a jerk, break up with him. he should not act immature when approached with something he did wrong.


i would not act bitchy or mean, just be honest and very calm.





you should not tell him what to get you, or babysit and remind him. hes a big boy. and youre not a gold digger, youre a girl. you like special surprises and presents because it shows that hes still into impressing you and making you feel special.


if he doesnt have the money, then its ok, he can show you in other ways.


but lets be honest. he should have thought about it and gotten you something.
Reply:you are sooooooooooo shallow!!! ALL YOU WANT IS GIFTS???





dump him, he%26#039;s better off without an obvious golddigger!!!





if gifts are all you want, get yourself a rich sugar daddy... relationships aren%26#039;t about the price of gifts, they are about the love shared!!! you need to lighten up!!!
Reply:appoligied= no known definition


you need to kick him to the curb!! and you should do it on a talk show such as jerry springer or oprah. take it all the way, he needs to be humiliated on national television, better yet challenge him to a spelling bee
Reply:Evaluate what%26#039;s more important. Your anniversary or your entire relationship. He took you out to dinner. Give him a chance to surprise you with flowers or a gift on Saturday. My husband is a dispatcher for an ambulance service and usually has to work all of the holidays and anniversaries. We rarely celebrate things on the day you%26#039;re supposed to. Being with him is more important that what he buys me. Also, men need to know (not be hinted to) on what to do in these types of situations. Because of our budget, for my birthday, I told my husband to get me a small bouquet of flowers (not roses, too expensive) and a nice card, nothing else. He liked not having to guess and knew I would be happy.
Reply:love isnt about special gifts my friend!


learn to love with ur hearts
Reply:he%26#039;s a guy. we don%26#039;t care about anniversaries. I%26#039;m sure he%26#039;s sorry but we don%26#039;t think about things like that. flowers are very thoughtful though
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t be bother,but then again a guy I dated used to hold back my presents for punishment, he would say I didn%26#039;t deserve them,



loan

Condoleeza Rice is coming to my hometown.What should we throw at her eggs or flowers?

She%26#039;s coming on the anniversary of 9/11 %26amp; I think her presence in New York would be better suited.;...what do you think.

Condoleeza Rice is coming to my hometown.What should we throw at her eggs or flowers?
I couldn%26#039;t possibly disagree more with her stance in most political issues, however, she is a representative of our government and she deserves our respect as such and as a human being. If you disagree you should voice your opinion in a manner that is both ethical and productive.
Reply:Your Appolgy is hollow. The very act of posting this question is a disgrace %26amp; sign of disrespect. You sir, have no class. Report It

Reply:throw taco belle chicken tacos.
Reply:Throw footballs at her. She likes football.
Reply:Rotten eggs inside some of those shoes she was buying in New York during the Katrina crisis last year. She is a complete disgrace.
Reply:eggs... rotten ones
Reply:She needs to go back to her academic work and retire from politics before she really does some damage.
Reply:rocks!!
Reply:another cowardly act proposed the the idiot lying left!!!
Reply:small non=flowering bushes . . . she seems to be lost without one by her side.
Reply:how bout respect!
Reply:Hippy, lib, loser, commie!
Reply:mixture of rotten eggs and flour would be the best...
Reply:Instead of throwing something at her, why not ask her to distribute some leaflets referring to the %26quot;truth%26quot;?
Reply:Secretary Rice has traveled the world over attempting to reduce the threat of nuclear weapons, trying to end the war between Israel and Lebanon, and to build support for our war against terrorism. Of course she should be honored if she came to your town, give her more than flowers, give her the key to the city. What have you done to make the world a safer, better place to live?
Reply:I think rotten eggs would be better. Or a big load of dog crap!!!!!!!
Reply:throw her a CLUE
Reply:I%26#039;d send her a few kisses from some F-14 tomcats
Reply:Post an edit and tell us why you think you should throw stuff at her. What did she do to DIRECTLY make you mad? She didn%26#039;t start the war on terror. She didn%26#039;t listen to people%26#039;s phone calls or fly planes in our buildings. No offense, I%26#039;m just wondering. I want to hear other people%26#039;s opinions on things like this.
Reply:Lots of rice, just like at the Rocky Horror Picture show
Reply:I think we should throw them at you......


Grow up.
Reply:of course eggggggggggggggggggggggg
Reply:be professional. don%26#039;t do anything that would be embarrassing
Reply:I really have to hold myself back from saying eggs, rotten eggs. In lieu of that, just opt for telling her emphatically to leave and never come back. That%26#039;s what they did in Lebanon.


If she makes an appearance in New York, that would only be a politically motivated tactic. Wrong. Very wrong. For anyone.
Reply:I personally think the best thing any of us could throw at her would be serious, probing questions.





I think she (and the administration she represents) has managed to avoid true intelligent discussion with America for far too long.
Reply:rice
Reply:THROW YOU PURSE AT HER YOU HAIRY MANWOMEN
Reply:Do any of you commie libs work?
Reply:Rice.




puppy teeth

What is a good gift for a 16 year old girl for a 3 month anniversary?

I know that 3 months isn%26#039;t that big of a deal, but I want to do something nice for her. We go out to dinner every once in awhile, so I don%26#039;t think that would do. I also get her flowers pretty often, so that might not be that great either. I was thinking earrings or something but I don%26#039;t want to go too over the top or anything. Any suggestions?





Thanks.

What is a good gift for a 16 year old girl for a 3 month anniversary?
I would think, a card well picked out to say how you feel or how being with her has impacted your life, with a few words of your own written in would be nice and not too expensive,You could possibly even follow up with taking her on a walk at a city waterfront or beach.
Reply:honestly, i think a heartfelt letter to her about how much you care about her and telling her all the things you like about her is much sweeter than anything money can buy.



Reebok

Why is my beloved fiancee angry with me after I gave her flowers? Are some women just never happy?

Yesterday happened to be our 2nd anniversary of our first date. 2 years ago I took her with me to a dental appointment I had, and she was able to read a number of magazines while I had my filling put in. That was the beginning of a very romantic journey that has continued to this very day. :)





My beloved Megan (Mee-Gun, NOT May-Gun) is a jewel in the rough. In a world full of widgets, she is a sparkling diamond. She even works an extra job at night for a little extra income so that I can dedicate my free time to playing Madden %26#039;08. Trust me, that extra money she earns is going to buy her any wedding ring she can afford if I have my way!





So I sent her 7 yellow roses with a card to her workplace today. I sent along a beautiful card that read %26quot;Here. Love, Jacquot%26quot;.





Now she won%26#039;t talk to me! Normally this would be alright, as I need to concentrate on my Madden %26#039;08 game now that we are in the playoffs, but tonight I am hosting a couple from work for a dinner party.





What can I do to make this right? I need her to make her special spaghetti for dinner tonight. I%26#039;m up for a promotion!





Thanks :)

Why is my beloved fiancee angry with me after I gave her flowers? Are some women just never happy?
These people think you%26#039;re serious!!! lmao





You goof~!!





Next time just send her the bill for the flowers and throw the flowers away! That%26#039;ll teach her!





I hope you get that spaghetti and not another sandwich!
Reply:I don%26#039;t know why she%26#039;s mad, but this happen to us before, I wasn%26#039;t angry though, I told my husband never buy me cut roses, because they%26#039;re a wast of money. I rather him buy me something alive, also, the color yellow also means jealousy. Next time try a different color.
Reply:You are an idiot. You let her work all the time so you can slack and she has to buy her own wedding ring. No wonder she is mad at you for the flowers....it was probably her money that bought the dumb things.
Reply:you wrote %26quot;here.%26quot; thats why. You did not elaborate ot say happy 2nd annivarsary or aything to that effect so it made her feel like you had to do it, not because you wanted too.
Reply:you annoy me. I don%26#039;t know why. you just do.
Reply:As it happens I am not also not the founder of the law firm Notta, Lotta, %26amp; Help, (aquired during a hostile take over from one teary eyed MLA ((man that guys a cryer))) I am also a psychologist (although I am equally as unhelpful as such) I like to offer my couples counseling to you and your beloved Megan..


Fee Schedule:





a. $ 50 I blame it all on you


b. $100 Regular counseling


c. $150 I blame it all on her


d. $200 I blame it all on her and guilt her into pleasuring you daily


e. $250 you receive D %26amp; I also get rid of the mother in law



loan

Would you feel bad if your man didnt get you anything for your 2 year anniversary? 10 points?

Ok well believe me I know material items dont mean anything. But a card, flowers...something? I just felt bad.





Am I over reacting?

Would you feel bad if your man didnt get you anything for your 2 year anniversary? 10 points?
Been there, done that!!!! I felt badly too. How about for a Christmas present, he said that I didn%26#039;t have to reimburse him for a down payment we made on my teenage daughter%26#039;s car!!! Valentine%26#039;s, I didn%26#039;t get a card, dinner, nada. For my birthday, he never even remembered. Anniversary? What%26#039;s that? I feel your pain!





We were married almost 12 years, when we were supposed to be on the Dr Phil Show. It was because he was the most unromantic man in the world! That%26#039;s when my life changed. He decided 2 weeks before Christmas that he wanted a divorce instead. Needless to say we never went on the show... (I can laugh now. Not only did we miss the show, I found out that he had a mistress he met online. Guess he didn%26#039;t want Dr Phil to expose him on national TV? The show actually saved me!!!)





I%26#039;ve since met the love of my life %26amp; am happier than I ever imagined! He%26#039;s romantic, thoughtful, surprises me with flowers, hidden cards, candy, etc. etc. Makes up for the many special days I spent crying.





Let him know how you feel and just talk. Don%26#039;t get mad just let him know that you were upset. If nothing changes, you%26#039;ll have a lot of miserable days ahead. Get used to it or do something special for yourself. (Spend a lot of money on yourself %26amp; maybe he%26#039;ll decide he%26#039;d rather spend money on flowers instead?) Good luck. Lemme know how things turn out!
Reply:I probably would be upset just because sometimes there is no money to buy expensive stuff but a guy can at least come up with something fun that isn%26#039;t too expensive.





You know a card or a flower that he took from somebody%26#039;s garden. A dollar store gift that is cute.





I mean regardless of money being short your guy should still be able to make something special for you.





Was your anniversary today? If so then wait because he might be planning something and surprise you. If it was before then did he at least say happy anniversary?





If he just forgot or didn%26#039;t care to get you anything I would have a talk with him about it and tell him that wasn%26#039;t very cool of him.





Good luck :D
Reply:After 34 years of marriage, my husband and I discuss what we are going to do or get on Valentines Day, anniversary, Christmas, etc.. He knows I don%26#039;t like cut flowers, but for Valentines we usually buy a flower or shrub to plant in the yard. We usually take a trip to one of our special spots or get a joint gift together, not something meaningless, that way there are no hurt feelings.
Reply:Yes, I would be very upset, especially since my husband is one that always buy me flowers and little things he and there....so if he missed our anniversary, I would be very sad.
Reply:I would feel %26#039;%26#039;forgotten%26#039;%26#039; or that he forgot the date.


Which wouldn%26#039;t make me feel good.





Maybe he is planning a surprise?





Although, he should have got you a card.!!!!


Hint things to him





:P
Reply:maybe he thinks you don%26#039;t need it. Some guys over estimate us a bit. Sit ihm down and tlak about it. but yeah, i would have felt bad too.
Reply:No your not...I would be upset too that he didnt even try to put some thought bringing a smile to your face...Tell him how he made you feel and see if next time he will maybe try
Reply:DID HE EVEN TELL YOU HAPPY ANNIVERSARY????





I know it hurts, but as long as he said happy anniversary then... it%26#039;s ok I guess. I would still be LIVID though!!!
Reply:yeah that happened to me 2 one time. yea i felt bad to but somes guys are just like that. he prob didnt mean to hurt you
Reply:heck yes woman!


tell him staright up how you feel!
Reply:what did you do for him? or is the relationship just about you.
Reply:Guys don%26#039;t think about that stuff.
Reply:yeah i would without a doubt be upset.
Reply:he might be tricking you, so you let your guard down then he suprises you



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