Would you feel bad if your man didnt get you anything for your 2 year anniversary? 10 points?

Ok well believe me I know material items dont mean anything. But a card, flowers...something? I just felt bad.





Am I over reacting?

Would you feel bad if your man didnt get you anything for your 2 year anniversary? 10 points?
Been there, done that!!!! I felt badly too. How about for a Christmas present, he said that I didn%26#039;t have to reimburse him for a down payment we made on my teenage daughter%26#039;s car!!! Valentine%26#039;s, I didn%26#039;t get a card, dinner, nada. For my birthday, he never even remembered. Anniversary? What%26#039;s that? I feel your pain!





We were married almost 12 years, when we were supposed to be on the Dr Phil Show. It was because he was the most unromantic man in the world! That%26#039;s when my life changed. He decided 2 weeks before Christmas that he wanted a divorce instead. Needless to say we never went on the show... (I can laugh now. Not only did we miss the show, I found out that he had a mistress he met online. Guess he didn%26#039;t want Dr Phil to expose him on national TV? The show actually saved me!!!)





I%26#039;ve since met the love of my life %26amp; am happier than I ever imagined! He%26#039;s romantic, thoughtful, surprises me with flowers, hidden cards, candy, etc. etc. Makes up for the many special days I spent crying.





Let him know how you feel and just talk. Don%26#039;t get mad just let him know that you were upset. If nothing changes, you%26#039;ll have a lot of miserable days ahead. Get used to it or do something special for yourself. (Spend a lot of money on yourself %26amp; maybe he%26#039;ll decide he%26#039;d rather spend money on flowers instead?) Good luck. Lemme know how things turn out!
Reply:I probably would be upset just because sometimes there is no money to buy expensive stuff but a guy can at least come up with something fun that isn%26#039;t too expensive.





You know a card or a flower that he took from somebody%26#039;s garden. A dollar store gift that is cute.





I mean regardless of money being short your guy should still be able to make something special for you.





Was your anniversary today? If so then wait because he might be planning something and surprise you. If it was before then did he at least say happy anniversary?





If he just forgot or didn%26#039;t care to get you anything I would have a talk with him about it and tell him that wasn%26#039;t very cool of him.





Good luck :D
Reply:After 34 years of marriage, my husband and I discuss what we are going to do or get on Valentines Day, anniversary, Christmas, etc.. He knows I don%26#039;t like cut flowers, but for Valentines we usually buy a flower or shrub to plant in the yard. We usually take a trip to one of our special spots or get a joint gift together, not something meaningless, that way there are no hurt feelings.
Reply:Yes, I would be very upset, especially since my husband is one that always buy me flowers and little things he and there....so if he missed our anniversary, I would be very sad.
Reply:I would feel %26#039;%26#039;forgotten%26#039;%26#039; or that he forgot the date.


Which wouldn%26#039;t make me feel good.





Maybe he is planning a surprise?





Although, he should have got you a card.!!!!


Hint things to him





:P
Reply:maybe he thinks you don%26#039;t need it. Some guys over estimate us a bit. Sit ihm down and tlak about it. but yeah, i would have felt bad too.
Reply:No your not...I would be upset too that he didnt even try to put some thought bringing a smile to your face...Tell him how he made you feel and see if next time he will maybe try
Reply:DID HE EVEN TELL YOU HAPPY ANNIVERSARY????





I know it hurts, but as long as he said happy anniversary then... it%26#039;s ok I guess. I would still be LIVID though!!!
Reply:yeah that happened to me 2 one time. yea i felt bad to but somes guys are just like that. he prob didnt mean to hurt you
Reply:heck yes woman!


tell him staright up how you feel!
Reply:what did you do for him? or is the relationship just about you.
Reply:Guys don%26#039;t think about that stuff.
Reply:yeah i would without a doubt be upset.
Reply:he might be tricking you, so you let your guard down then he suprises you



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