What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend did not get you a special gift for your 1 year anniversary?

Well 1 year was just yesterday. I spend $50-75 and went all over get his gift. He just treated me to dinner and appoligied for not finding anything to get me yet. Looked one place last minute for flowers. Also he said I would have to wait til Saturday. I acted sad ,but did not want to start an arguement on this special day.It acted like 1 year was a big deal to him cuase he never had that long of reltionships and ours was going good. What would you do if you were in this situation? actions? words?

What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend did not get you a special gift for your 1 year anniversary?
you should be lucky he remembered
Reply:Just be patient, like you said, a relationship this long is new to him. Keep making each milestone a special event and he will catch on.
Reply:nothing just go with the flow
Reply:Well at least he took you out to dinner and got you flower%26#039;s.


He didn%26#039;t forget right? . Give the guy some credit for that one.


Maybe he%26#039;s just trying to find that perfect gift,


instead of rushing into it and buying you something cheap


Give him time, hint him on what you like.





Hope you get something nice. : )
Reply:As long as he shagged you as well i don%26#039;t see a problem.
Reply:Honestly, It wouldnot really matter if my girlfriend didnt get me anything for our aniversary because the improtant ting is that i still hav her. and that%26#039;s the greatest gift for me.
Reply:nothing to do ,, but i will not give them any gift any more ,,


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Reply:He probably have something romantic and special for you that%26#039;s why he told you to wait until Saturday, and the dinner was just the beginning. Be patient; at least he remembered the anniversary.
Reply:I%26#039;d be keepin the pimpette hand strong
Reply:Why does it matter whether or not he bought you something? Gifts should never be thought of symbols of love, especially gifts given on premediated holidays. The way he treats you should always be more than enough.
Reply:wait and see if he makes it up to you...men are forgetful....why didnt you remind him it was coming up anyways....you should of known better.
Reply:I think some guys just don%26#039;t realize the importance of %26quot;gifts.%26quot; I have been with my guy for 6 years, and he has never really bought me a gift, just taken me out to dinner. I usually get mad about it, but I know he loves me.....must just be a gene they%26#039;re missing. You should definitely tell him that the thought (gifts) means a lot to you and see what happens next time.
Reply:Guys are stupid sometimes.





Give him time to get a present. Tell him specifically that you%26#039;re %26quot;looking forward%26quot; to Saturday.





Praise anything he gives you even if you don%26#039;t like it.
Reply:There is nothing you should do about this specifically. It is however an indication that maybe he isn%26#039;t as excited about being with you as he should be. Give him some more time, and if it seems that your dates have become routing and he%26#039;s lost all sense of romance then maybe you should get rid of him. At that point, the only reason for him to be with you is because he prefers having a girl around than being alone with other guys.
Reply:He feels bad ... Atleast he took you out, and is putting forth effort... My bf is bad to buy me gifts.. I would have to go w/ him or tell him what I want... S, don%26#039;t feel bad... The best way to celebrate an anniversary is to just spend time together. GIfts, Atleast to me, aren%26#039;t much.. as long as he%26#039;s there... that%26#039;s what matters
Reply:id make sure that its clear why he didnt do it. If he didnt have the money, he should have planned, but thats a forgiveable thing.


but if he straight up forgot, which happens a lot, its not forgivable.


i would ask him if you two could talk, and start up by explaining how the anniversary was very special for you, and you feel like he didnt plan and remember it.


then explain how you were hurt and if he reacts like a jerk, break up with him. he should not act immature when approached with something he did wrong.


i would not act bitchy or mean, just be honest and very calm.





you should not tell him what to get you, or babysit and remind him. hes a big boy. and youre not a gold digger, youre a girl. you like special surprises and presents because it shows that hes still into impressing you and making you feel special.


if he doesnt have the money, then its ok, he can show you in other ways.


but lets be honest. he should have thought about it and gotten you something.
Reply:you are sooooooooooo shallow!!! ALL YOU WANT IS GIFTS???





dump him, he%26#039;s better off without an obvious golddigger!!!





if gifts are all you want, get yourself a rich sugar daddy... relationships aren%26#039;t about the price of gifts, they are about the love shared!!! you need to lighten up!!!
Reply:appoligied= no known definition


you need to kick him to the curb!! and you should do it on a talk show such as jerry springer or oprah. take it all the way, he needs to be humiliated on national television, better yet challenge him to a spelling bee
Reply:Evaluate what%26#039;s more important. Your anniversary or your entire relationship. He took you out to dinner. Give him a chance to surprise you with flowers or a gift on Saturday. My husband is a dispatcher for an ambulance service and usually has to work all of the holidays and anniversaries. We rarely celebrate things on the day you%26#039;re supposed to. Being with him is more important that what he buys me. Also, men need to know (not be hinted to) on what to do in these types of situations. Because of our budget, for my birthday, I told my husband to get me a small bouquet of flowers (not roses, too expensive) and a nice card, nothing else. He liked not having to guess and knew I would be happy.
Reply:love isnt about special gifts my friend!


learn to love with ur hearts
Reply:he%26#039;s a guy. we don%26#039;t care about anniversaries. I%26#039;m sure he%26#039;s sorry but we don%26#039;t think about things like that. flowers are very thoughtful though
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t be bother,but then again a guy I dated used to hold back my presents for punishment, he would say I didn%26#039;t deserve them,



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